Q: What do Christians believe about marriage?

A: Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God.  In the marriage ceremony a couple make a public declaration of lifelong commitment to love each other, come what may.

Q: Can I get married in St Mary Magdalen Church?

A: At the moment, and likely to be for some years, St Mary Magdalen Church building is unsafe and cannot be used.  Weddings will instead take place at St Andrew's Alresford.  Anyone who lives in the parish of Frating with Thorrington may be married there.  The new Marriage Measure (October 2008) now allows those with a qualifying connection with the parish to get married here also.  Speak to the Rector to see if this applies to you.

Q: I'm divorced.  Can I get married in church?

A: The church believes that marriage is for life but it also recognises that sadly, some marriages do fail.  Depending on the circumstances it may be possible for a divorcee to marry again in church.  The Rector will discuss this with you.

Q: I'm Church of England and he's a Catholic.  Does that matter?

A: People of all denominations have the right to be married in their parish church (provided they haven't been married before)

Q: What about marriage preparation?

A: All couples geting married will be invited to an afternoon or morning of preparation.  This is an informal way to get all the couples getting married in the church that year together to think more about what marriage means.  It is normally held in February and you will automatically be sent an invitation once you have booked your wedding.

Q: How much will it cost?

A: The costs are between £314 and £414.

Q: How do I book my wedding?

A: Speak to the Rector: Rev Pauline Scott (01206 823163).